See this mod for potential compatibility fixes that a third-party mod could provide, if either of the planet's mod authors are unwilling to do so.
Whoever wants to implement compatibility just has to remove "wood-science-pack" and "steam-science-pack" from the following technologies during data-final-fixes (might work in data-updates?):
--CERYS
"cerys-cargo-drops",
"holmium-plate-productivity-2",
--CORRUNDUM
"asphalt-and-concrete",
"calcium-sulfate",
"calcium-sulfate-nutrients",
"dry-ice-production",
"pressure-laboratory",
"research-speed-infinite",
"space-steam-production",
"stone-production",
(only tested as of Cerys v0.8.13, Corrundum v1.0.2, and Lignumis v0.0.6)
I think it would be easier for a third party mod to fix, unless one of the planet mods adds an optional dependency to the other to enforce a specific load order, that might eventually lead to some unintentional dependency loops.