I checked, and double checked.. the files are identical (I uploaded them from my client afterall..).
I believe I have fixed it though. I unzipped each of the mods, and copied the info.JSON up one directory , so it is now in the "opening folder" of each zip.
Server loads them just fine now. No clue why, none of the other mods have said file in that location.. but it works \o/
Now all I am faced with is "Error Util.cpp:81: Error in assignID: fluid with name 'concrete-fluid' does not exist." , but I doubt that is relevant for here.
While I got your attention, I wanna say thanks for making this publicly available tool for everyone to use. IR3 is by far my favourite overhaul, and I have dearly missed it since 2.0 released! Thank you!!