I'm not following what you mean, sorry.
How the mod works is that whenever a player's surface changes, it is placed in a new spidertron (all inventory etc from the old one is transferred into the new one and the old one is deleted).
This means that you will be driving the spidertron around the factory, and any other surface that it is transported to.
Are you saying that you want the player to be walking around with the spidertron walking around behind it? The point is that the player is the spidertron and the 'allow the player to leave' setting is just a compatibility hack.
Sure, there's the stuff we discussed in this thread about it living inside the spidertron, but that's really not the intended or supported 'lore'.