I think the reason it didn't work for you was that I forgot I had edited some info files of the mods to enable some mods that were marked as incompatible to still work together (IIRC deep core mining and spaceexploration). Sorry about that. If you're still interested and are willing to spend a couple of minutes extracting and modifying the files I can tell you what needs changing and how.
For me it is definitely not the wasps or their drones. The attacking of puddles was happening long before any of those biter types spawned.
I'm not 100% certain the cause is your mod. I also have this thing: https://mods.factorio.com/mod/WaterTurret
It has a setting that allows toggling the water turrets to target or not target puddles for extinguishing as well as turning off their targeting of nests/biters.
Though I'm also 100% certain that isn't the mod that is causing the problem since I had the issue long before I ever installed the water turret mod.
Currently I suspect there is some other mod in my pack that messes around with turret targeting logic without having a relevant configuration option for it. Not sure I can find it considering the pack has over 300 mods :)
If you have ideas how I could test/debug the targeting logic I could try looking into it myself.