I don't think there's currently any way to do that. Launching when a certain weight threshold is met could be a worthwhile feature to add. I don't have a lot of time for mod development these days but it's something I'll keep in mind for the future.
@S6X Since you mentioned you're short on time, I may be able to implement it for you since it seems fitting to be in this mod.
If you're open to it, I could do the coding and submit a pull request if you were to upload the source code to a GitHub repository.
Nice! Until this got added, I used my own (private) mod to output an additional weight signal from rocket silos, but this seems like a more streamlined approach for a simpler circuit network. Nice work!