when playing with space exploration and lilys incendiaries extra ammo types do not work

It doesn't work in what way? The turrets don't accept the new ammo types or turrets with new ammo types are not being upgraded?

If it's the former it's probably just a load order issue, and I can add it as an optional dependency to fix it.

when playing with Bob's Mods (all of them) modded fluids not working after range is researched

This should be fixed for Lily's Incendiaries and the applicable Bob's mods in the latest release.

I just hopped on and updated it the upgraded turrets are still not accepting napalm from Lily's Incendiaries

I just hopped on and updated it the upgraded turrets are still not accepting napalm from Lily's Incendiaries

That's unfortunate. Lily's must be doing some in-game scripting either on the flamethrower turrets or the napalm fluid. I'm working on a better implementation of the range mod that should hopefully be more broadly compatible with other mods.