Yes, that was it.
Is it really not that straight forward for people to click on the visible circuit connector? :D
Visible? It is in a sense, but in another it isn't. In Factorio, the displayed graphics don't really matter regarding the player's interaction. For that, the yellow frame that shows up when hovering your mouse is all that counts. There is only a single building where you have to aim your click according the the building's graphic instead of the frame (the power switch). So unless you by chance hover over the connector and notice the extra selection frame, it is invisible. At most you think "in a vanilla building, those connectors would be invisible until a wire is attached, but it's a mod, so it's fine."
And, by the way, after connecting over two thousand labs manually one-by-one, that "it would be too much work to make it copy&paste-able" has a really sour taste to it...