it appears to work like my transformers, but splits up the 'input' and 'output' so that it only 'connects' them if there is a line of power poles (with red wires) joining them.
Yeah, that's how it works. When one transformer is connected to another via big poles, they can teleport energy to each other. Of course the problem is, that you need red wire... But with current limitation like in your mod, you could actually use normal copper wire with big poles, just reduce the output of the step-up-transformer.
I'm not sure how well it would fit in this mod though? Would you actually want both the flow limiting and the overflow explosions at the same time?
Something like that, yes. AFAIK highvoltage doesn't limit flow, it just needs a bit of time until the transformers reach the required voltage. You should be able to pass infinitely high current through any pole though. But I think that charge up time gives it a nice challenge, since you can't just put hundreds of laser turrets down and have them work instantly, you need an energy buffer. That's what I am looking for, a bit more electric logistics.