Same error here. I had this mod up and running, saved the game and exited Factorio. When I downloaded new mods and loaded the saved game (mods being synchronized at this point), I got the error reported above.
I found this workaround:
- Disable Flamethrower Fluid
- Load the game, synchronize it to enable the new mods -- but make sure to disable Flamethrower Fluid!
- Save the game and quit
- Enable Flamethrower Fluid
- Load the game, synchronize and enable Flamethrower Fluid again. The game should load without an error now.
Depending on the number of installed mods, that may take some time. Also, recipes (and items, I guess) from Flamethrower Fluid will be deleted on loading the game. I haven't researched even oil yet, so I don't mind, but once you've researched flame throwers, that workaround may damage your game!
In addition, this workaround is not permanent: The error will occur again if you add another mod!
I hope this information helps to find the error. :-)