it sounds like you have the pre-place menu turned on to overwrite hand placements to a specific position. Try turning it off from the options on the inserter button.
In theory, you only want to turn on the override positions option when you want to place something that isn't the default.
Also, I wrote the entire thing from memory, so the names and buttons might be different, but the short version is that you should open the menu by turning on the button in the top left corner, and make sure the override/overwrite positions checkbox is turned off.