I'm not that familiar on how to solve a desync but I've added a per-client mod setting last version that might be the problem. Could you try a solution on your setup?
You just have to go to the WideChests_2.1.1.zip in both server and client and alter settings.lua. There is a setting with name "shortcut-tool" at the bottom, set "per_user" field to "false" on both server and client.
If this doesn't work I'll read up on desyncs and try to fix it.