"You never forget your first [chest explosion]." — one of the Factorio devs, probably
Performance on your system doesn't correlate to anyone else's experience—for all I know, you have a Core i9-10980HK or something else ridiculous. We know that larger inventories make the game slower, and warehouses can each have up to 24 inserters linked to them in vanilla, to say nothing of modded inserters. Inserters interacting with the inventory is what causes the most slowdowns.
And just as a personal preference, I really like the 50 stacks/tile density you get with 1800-slot warehouses. It's a nice number. Actually, looking at these numbers again has reminded me that storehouses have the same item density as warehouses, which doesn't make sense. But now I'm just getting sidetracked.
Maybe there will be a reevaluation of inventory sizes in a future update, but please don't hold your breath for storage buildings to match the other types. Anoyomouse and I are both quite fond of the idea that the storage buildings have a ton of stuff ripped out of the inside to make them hold more stuff at the expense of fancier logistic features. 😁