see https://mods.factorio.com/mod/InlaidLampsExtended/discussion/6a4d6bd10065f2d31efa762f
I don't know why they change the small_lamp's fast_replaceable_group from lamp to lamps and I don't know what side effects my hack has, but at least Factorio starts. Maybe this helps.
Edit: see Inlaid Lamps Extended /prototypes/entities.lua
lamp.fast_replaceable_group = "lamps"