Locomotives and cargo wagons are 3m wide, more than twice standard track gauge. AAR maximum loading gauge is 3.25m (10’ 8”) wide. The width is realistic.
The Chonky Trains fluid wagon is over 4m wide, too wide for any standard or even broad gauge railroad in the world.
My target for Chonky Trains is the EMD GP40 series, at 18m length and 3m width. Unfortunately the curve radius for Factorio track is fixed and 18m just looks comical, so I settled on 12m length.