The on/off toggle is already on the wishlist.
For laying multiple lanes at once, I still prefer/advice using bots to lay them, by having a blueprint of 2wide or 4wide beltlanes, and pasting them. I did see another belt mod on this site that lets you lay multiple lanes at once, but have no experience with it.
Not sure what you mean with 2. One thing that's high on my list though, is that user actions should always have precedence over auto mod actions. Meaning that I don't want a mod to guess too much, and thereby making your game more about fighting the auto-lay system, opposed to a mod system that actually tries to help you. An overlayed belt is something what I see as: Mod did something, user wants it differently. That's why an overlayed belt will not be changes by the mod.