are these 2x2 tiles identical with the grid for rails, or can they be at any even or odd coordinates to have beneficial effects?
i also found that it helps them hitting the loading and unloading tiles when there are road tiles on at least 2 or better yet on all 3 sides of those load/unload tiles.
concerning congestion: since they all pass through each other and also don't hit the player (and yet i always sidestep when they come towards me, LOL), i see no reason to build wider roads only because of heavy traffic.