So, my issue is that I am doing Omni+ PyAE + Dangoreus which seems to cause FNEI to take a WHILE to load into a world.
My suggestions: add a setting that switches from "load recipes on world entry" to "load n amount of recipes per tick" that allows me to just accept me fate of "too many recipes lol" and I'll just only use FNEI after it's done loading all the recipes (probably takes a while, but at least then I can ... play the game...)
I am praying. :)