Hm... What kind of compatibility issue did you face? How can I reproduce the problem?
I tried setting-up the lamp -> medium power lamp -> high power lamp upgrade locally, loading Cargo Ships together with Sketchy Power Lamps, and I did not encounter any issues - the oil rig is not upgradeable to medium power lamp.
I can see that Cargo Ships mods does copy the lamp entity, but it is not used as a main entity (and has flags that disallow copying it and deconstructing it).
As a side-note, you could also question whether lamp should be upgradeable - with smaller lamps you might spam them a bit more frequently, and then using medium/high power lamps could result in a lot of light in the area :)