generic failed to load mods message
mod list and screenshot below
only this mod and it's dependencies were enabled

screenshot: https://imgur.com/a/lUmfoY0
mod list: http://hastebin.com/urefoqomet.json

None of the other mods were highlighted in red in the dependencies?
And a tip, try to completely clear the mods folder and install it again (for some, the problem is solved like this, I don't understand why this happens, but it's a fact, it can help you)

i'll try, it's just weird because i tested all this on a fresh factorio install, just downloaded the mod and restarted the game

I understand, I just see that there is a solution to this problem in the code (I have a clean 0.1.3 myself) and everything works fine. Another user had a different problem at startup. Reinstalling all mods helped. It happens. But it's really weird.
Surely you have done everything from the list in the FAQ or README?

ah fuck i haven't sorry

Haven't you read the FAQ?)

just did, will apply suggested changes when redownload is done

For the future, we have a very unusual modpack. And since we combined the modpack itself with SE in 0.1.0, we had to make a small sacrifice, in the form of creating a FAQ and README. Otherwise, you will not be able to launch it, you have just seen the errors yourself.

this makes it significantly harder to host a server, welp thats what you gotta do if you want SpaceEx with all the other things

Without these changes, launching a modpack with SpaceExploration is impossible.

Is the problem solved?

yes