Feel free to add them. They are compatible. Tungsten is a nice add as it makes use of mineral water.
When it comes to what mods should change: what do you think of this?
Change to OPTIONAL:
"? calculator-ui",
"? CleanTiles",
"? clock",
"? DeadlockLargerLamp",
"? FNEI",
"? Li-Colorful",
"? lightorio",
"? ModuleInserter",
"? pump",
"? rewire-tool",
Anything to add remove on this list?