Feel free to add them. They are compatible. Tungsten is a nice add as it makes use of mineral water. 
When it comes to what mods should change: what do you think of this? 
Change to OPTIONAL:
    "? calculator-ui",
    "? CleanTiles",
    "? clock",
    "? DeadlockLargerLamp",
    "? FNEI",
    "? Li-Colorful",
    "? lightorio",
    "? ModuleInserter",
    "? pump",
    "? rewire-tool",
Anything to add remove on this list?